ive done everything i can to make it work, and now i think this is the last thing i can do, but how do i do it?As long as you set TTMM to use the right directory, it should work. Are you downloading the mods? You cannot check or uncheck server mods. They display as checked if they exist on your system.
Are you using the latest Executable.zip from the releases page on github? If anything, try extracting that to the desktop.
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